Today we went to a first birthday party for Sophie, who is the daughter of Jeff's friend Josh from high school. Lucy loves birthday parties (cake, balloons...) and she had a great time. They had a trampoline in the yard and she had a blast bouncing on it. I am really happy that she liked it because it seems that I can never really predict what she will love and what she will be scared of. She is pretty bold but can also be scared of her own shadow. We've figured out that it is a control issue -- so she is totally unafraid of anything within her control, but anything that is not, something as small as a tiny ant crawling in the car, can be enough to send her over the edge. Anyway the trampoline was clearly "in her control" and boy did she love it. I was just wondering the other day whether she would love the trampolines on the Cape that I grew up bouncing on -- next time we are down there, we will have to go!
The only bad part of the day was Phoebe in the car. She cried almost the entire way home, and it was a long drive. She cries in the car all the time and it is a real issue. Nothing seems to help -- not singing, not a mirror, not toys. Sometimes it helps if I go back there with her (if Jeff is driving) and make googy sounds and smile at her, but lately even that doesn't help all the time. It is heartbreaking to hear her cry and, of course, not pleasant for us to listen to. Could she be carsick? I just don't know what to do. If anyone has any suggestions, PLEASE let me know!
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Birthday party action
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Friday, June 27, 2008
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
More hair fun
I got some nice comments about Lucy's French braid hairdo in my last post, so I thought I would post some pictures of an even more impressive 'do from last week. And for those wondering...she does let me do this, surprisingly, without too much of a fuss. I just let her play with a few hairbands and she is relatively content. I can't wait until I can start playing with Phoebe's hair. For now, she is working on growing out a really nice rat tail just like Lucy had. Unlike with Lucy, however, I think I will cut Phoebe's before it gets out of control!
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Sunday, June 22, 2008
Watermelon dress
Wanna know the best part? It was $3.99 at the Children's Orchard :)
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Thursday, June 19, 2008
Perfect timing!

Look look look at what is finally available in the U.S. just in time for Phoebe to start solids! And it's in my favorite shade of green! I NEED this!!!
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Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Correct me if I'm wrong: My research on BPA


Courtney, your recent post inspired me to finish this one that I have been working on for a while...
I am serious in my post title; please do correct me if I am wrong. That is part of the point of writing this post -- I want to know if others have come to my same conclusions. My other point is to share the information that I have learned for those who haven't looked into this issue. My disclaimer (again, only a lawyer would put a disclaimer in her kids' blog!) is that the following is just my summary of things I have read about online from other sources and thus shouldn't be taken as the truth. As I mentioned, I am interested to hear from others whether they have read differently. So if you are finding this post because you are conducting your own research on the topic, I'd suggest looking at more reputable sources!
I have been concerned about the presence of BPA (bisphenol A) in plastics since this issue started hitting the news. This is mostly because of its presence in baby bottles and sippy cups, both of which we use. It is also present in the linings of canned goods, but I am not going to get into that today (maybe some other time!). Studies have shown that BPA in products can cause some pretty bad things such as endocrine disturbances and even cancer (of course, these results are disputed). I have been feeling guilty for months, thinking that I really ought to get serious about this issue and in discarding the offending items from my home and replacing them with "safe" alternatives. So, without doing much research, I ordered some Sigg baby water bottles for Lucy. They are adorable and I love them, but they are expensive and also heavy...so I worry about errant ones hitting little Phoebe in the head. They also leak if you turn them upside down when the spout is open, so I can't let Lucy have one with water in bed as she requests every night. At any rate, I had diligently been trying to use the Sigg bottles in place of my regular Playtex sippies. But still, I had not thrown out the Playtex sippies because I still used them at bedtime and to send to daycare.
Recently, I visited a friend who has two daughters roughly Lucy and Phoebe's ages. I asked her if she was as confused as I am about this whole issue. She told me that her husband had checked the codes on their plastics and they were all ok. Hmmm, I had not heard of this. But I did know what she was referring to -- those little numbers you see inside the recycling sign that are embossed on the bottom of plastic goods. Turns out that those things are called "resin codes" and they indicate, for recycling purposes, the type of plastic that an item is made of. You can find a list of these codes by clicking here. It also turns out that BPA is present only in a particular type of plastic -- polycarbonate. So if the bottles, sippy cups, plastic bowls, etc. that you use are not made of polycarbonate, seems to me that they will not contain BPA (is this starting to sound like an LSAT question?). This is not to say that these plastics are entirely "safe" -- I think the jury is still out as to whether they do other bad things to you -- but from what I understand they do not contain BPA. Unfortunately, there is not a specific resin code for polycarbonate. Instead, it falls under the number 7, which is the code for all "other" plastics not covered by codes 1 through 6. I have noticed that sometimes when something has a code 7, it also has the letters PC under it, which to me indicate that it is, in fact, polycarbonate . Other times there are no letters. And sometimes there is no resin code at all.
A bit confusing, yes, but my course of action based on this research is as follows. First, I threw out everything with a code of 7, whether or not it had letters underneath it. Why risk it, right? Next, I put aside to keep anything with a code other than 7. But most of our sippy cups had no codes, so we looked around online and found through various sources (including Playtex's website) that their "sipster" sippy cups do not have BPA. Yeah, so we get to keep them and also rest easier knowing that we have not been using BPA-leeching sippy sups for the past year and a half. This made me wonder why certain companies are heavily marketing themselves as selling BPA-free products (at a great expense, I might add) when good ole' Playtex sipsters from CVS are just fine. Perhaps it is because they are still made of plastic, and perhaps all plastics are suspect for other non-BPA reasons...I dunno.
I also discovered that polycarbonate (the BPA-containing plastic) has a characteristic look -- it is hard and shiny. This made a lot of sense to me after looking at the products I had that were made out of polycarbonate. We also had some juice cups for Lucy that were adorable, each with a different little animal one them, but I tossed them because they were made out of hard, shiny plastic (no code on them). I should note that the Playtex nurser bottles that we use ARE made of polycarbonate (at least I think they are). But that is just the outer part and not the drop-in liner that comes into contact with the milk. So those are safe...I think!
Anyway this is my summary of findings...can you tell that I need to get back to my research job sooner rather than later? Please, please let me know if you have come to any different conclusions. I would love to get to the bottom of this issue -- hopefully I already have!
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Monday, June 16, 2008
Happy Father's Day
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Friday, June 13, 2008
Cloth diaper update: Score one for Mickey
{mickey mouse, clearly taunting me}As for Lucy, this morning she enthusiastically agreed to wear the "new green diaper." The enthusiasm lasted for all of 2 minutes. She immediately complained that it was too tight, and then walked around in it like an orangutan. She then told me that she wanted it off and that she wanted a "Mickey Mousey diaper" (i.e., a Huggies diaper with Mickey's picture on it). So, for those playing at home, the score is 1 for me (by way of Phoebe) and 1 for Mickey Mouse. Stay tuned.
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Thursday, June 12, 2008
Four Months Old
A third of a year gone by already...woosh! Unbelievable. But oh boy is my baby a cutie. I have said for a while that four months is the greatest age for a baby. The newborn baby is gone (sad, but true) but is replaced suddenly by this alert and active little person. The head is up and looking around, the naps start to fall into place, the personality starts to emerge. It is a great time.
Phoebe couldn't be doing better. When she was first born and I was oh-so-worried about her because she slept ALL time time (and hardly pooped!), Jeff remarked that I would feel better when she was a robust four month old...he was right. She is the picture of health and happiness. Her face lights up with smiles and she giggles all the time. Random people constantly tell me how cute she is, and usually they make a comment about her beautiful blue eyes or her plentiful blond hair. I always say that I also find her exceptionally cute and, no, I am not biased at all :)
Developmentally, she is doing great. She is rolling over like a champ. The only problem is that she is not entirely happy when she's rolled onto her belly and gets too tired to hold her head up. I think this will improve as her neck strength gets better and also as she is able to pull herself forward with her arms, thus making her tummy a fun place to be. It is a bit frustrating for now, though, because she won't stop turning over when I put her down on her back.
Let's see, what else in the development department? She continues to babble a lot with her little "bird calls." It often seems like she is conversing with us! She chews on her hand/thumb a lot and has started to make loud raspberries. She will hold a toy in her hands and bring it to her mouth to chew on. Weight-wise, she is a superstar. I weighed her this morning and she came in at 13.5 pounds. She does look a bit chunky to me, but I think that is normal for a 4-month-old. All eating and almost no exercise! Lucy was the same way, but she thinned out quickly once she started moving (and moving, and moving, and moving!).
As for sleep, well, we've gone backwards on that front a bit. She does nap well -- on a good day, she takes a shorter nap in the morning and a longer one in the afternoon at the same time as Lucy (from approx. 2-4:30). At night, she goes down at 8 but now gets up pretty consistently at 2 to eat, then again at 5, then awakes for her day at around 7. I may nurse her a bit in between 5 and 7. I am sure that I am feeding in (no pun intended) to her habits because I tend to nurse her whenever she makes a peep (she's still sleeping in the bassinet next to me). But still, I am not thrilled about the 2am feeding. That will be eliminated, whether she likes it or not, when she starts on solid food in a few months.
The great news about her bedtime routine is that she now accepts a bottle before bedtime! Bottles were a huge stuggle with Lucy and started to be with Phoebe as well. But Jeff started giving her one every night before bed and within a few nights she accepted it and now loves it. So I pump and we give it to her right away, still warm and fresh. This is such a relief because it means I can go out from time to time without worrying about whether she is going to be miserable and starving without me.
Great progress this month and great things in store...we love you Miss Phoebe-a-licious! Happy four months!
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Jeepers creepers
So if these blue eyes......turned into these dark green/brown eyes:

...what will THESE blue eyes do? I think maybe these are blue to stay, but time will tell!
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Doing the math
I have decided to give cloth diapers a try. I say "a try" because honestly I am not sure how they will work out for us. Will they leak? Will they be a pain to wash? What about when we are out and about? But anyway, I am going to try. There are many reasons for this, mostly because I am sickened by the amount of diapers we throw out every week and their impact on the environment (it's so cool to be green these days, dontcha know?). Also, and this is not my primary motivation but more my very correct justification for the high price of fancy new cloth diapers, they are a huge cost savings. I calculated today that if your child is in diapers for 2.5 years, that is 912.5 days of diapers. Using a very conservative estimate of 5 diapers a day (most days are more) and also a conservative .25 per diaper, that is $1,144.38 (at a minimum) to diaper one child! Compare that to buying a 6-pack of Bum Genius cloth diapers, which is $105. I know that the extra laundry will have some cost, though I am going to experiment with water temperatures to try to wash them in the lowest temp possible while still getting them clean enough for my household's precious behinds. Or, maybe just one precious behind, because I have no idea if Lucy will accept these. I am actually hoping that if she does, they will be a potty training help because she will feel more wet than she does in her super-absorbent disposables.
I only bought one cloth diaper for now, just to get a feel for it and to see how it works. I must admit, I was very excited when it arrived in the mail today (I know, get a life Sara). It is really cute and also easy to use. It is on Phoebe now, but I will wash it tonight and try it on Lucy tomorrow. I want to see how it holds up under lots of different, um, "circumstances." The real test will be breast milk poop, which I find tends to stain clothes like the dickens, but unfortunately with Phoebe's rather erratic poop pattern it may take a while to do the test-run on that front. At any rate, wish me luck!
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Monday, June 09, 2008
A quick comparison
Same parents, same dress, same doorway jumper, same age in the photos (3.5 months)...but very different girls.
Exhibit A, Miss Lucy Elise:
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Sunday, June 08, 2008
On the move
Phoebe is now rolling over like a little crazy lady. She did her first roll-over last week, but at first would still have her arm pinned under her when she rolled. This weekend she officially learned how to correct that and now she's doing full-fledged roll-overs. Much like Lucy was, she is not thrilled when she rolls to find herself on her tummy...but then we flip her back over and, woops, over she goes again. She just can't help herself! This is the beginning of having an active baby and not just a little lumpy newborn. But she is soooooo cute that she is well worth the effort :) I actually caught the first official roll on camera.
And yes, she is on the bathroom floor...so sue me.
She's also become quite fond of the exersaucer:
and the jumper:
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